A federal judge in Massachusetts sided with gay and lesbian advocates by ruling that the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) violates the constitutional rights of same-sex couples legally married in their state. It's the start of a long battle that will likely end up in the Supreme Court and eventually provide equality not only to US citizens but allow US citizens and permanant residents to sponsor their same-sex non-citizen partners.

Source: Immigration Equality

Big Queer congratulations to our very own Pauline Park for making the Campus Pride's 2009 Hot 25 list.

Pauline was noted for co-founding the New York Association of Gender Rights Advocacy (NYAGRA) as well as her work negotiating inclusion of "the first fully transgender-inclusive legislation" that was introduced in the New York legislature.

You can learn more on Pauline Park's website.

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While some may claim that the theatre is dead I want to tell you all that it's alive and well in New York.

Last Friday I had the pleasure of kick-starting my weekend with the best theatre I've seen in a long time. In Thunder Above, Deeps Below, playwright A. Rey Pamatmat tells the story of three homeless kids living on the streets of Chicago. He combines themes of gender and sexuality with classic themes of human survival and belief in the supernatural that take you through a full range of human emotion. I was thrilled, disturbed and exhausted when I left the performance. Now that's good theatre.

Since the A. Rey (aka Big Mouth) is a contributing editor to Big Queer (and a close friend) don't take my word for it alone. Daniel John Kelly's spot on review of the play over at NY Theatre.com states:

"Inspired by the late romances of Shakespeare, playwright A. Rey Pamatmat has created a wondrous magical adventure with Thunder Above, Deeps Below. It's large, loud, and complex—at times deeply funny, at times deeply disturbing. The play does credit to its classical roots while telling a story with real human characters that are entirely contemporary. Throughout the play, I found myself leaning forward in my seat, a huge smile on my face, totally immersed in the fantastical and yet heart-wrenching reality of the world of Thunder Above, Deeps Below."

I saw a staged reading of the play at the 2008 Eugene Eugene O'Neill National Playwrights Conference and was bowled over by it. Now in this world premier production, I am reminded how thrilling the theatre can be when you combine the talent of a brilliant writer with a super director and great cast.

Do not wait to get tickets as it runs only to September 26, 2009. Click your mouses over to Second Generation reserve your tickets and get ready for some intense theatre.

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"...any movement by an oppressed group to gain equal rights can only go so far until members outside the oppressed group begin to ACTIVELY campaign for the group's rights." When I wrote that line in July 2006 I was voicing my frustration or maybe even outrage that more straight folks were not more actively involved in the struggle for equal marriage but today I'm a little less frustrated.

While the struggle continues, we've made some great progress recently and there's a big push to pass equal marriage in New York among a diverse group of ACTIVELY involved heterosexuals.


The couple in the video have become actively involved in the fight for marriage equality and might just be a sign that there's no turning back. As I wrote in 2006 in comparing the fight for marriage equality with civil rights marches in the 1960s, "And one might argue that once non-blacks and blacks began marching hand-in-hand there was no turning back. A visible tide tide had begun to turn in support of major changes at least in terms of the laws of the land."

The active involvement of heterosexual couples like the one in the video will ultimately serve to ensure that all people are treated equal because when anyone group is not treated equally everyone's equality is in jeopardy.

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Decisions, decisions, decisions, two of our friends are in the second round finals for Logo's Big Gay Sketch Show casting competition.

Since I voted for both of them I figured it canceled out the votes for each so help me out and check out the videos below and then vote for them. So check out the videos below then make sure you vote for Jason Dudey and vote for Esther Silberstein.


Jason Dudey - Big Gay Sketch Show Casting

Visit Jason's page and vote for him!

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Esther Silberstein - Big Gay Sketch Show Casting

Visit Esther's Page and Vote for Her!

Remember a while back ago when I posted that Apple ad that used supermodel Gisele Bundchen juxtaposed with a very masculine looking male model in a dress for a cheap gender laugh? Yeah I figured you didn't so watch it now then read about PETA's Transphobic ad on The Colonic.

In the primary against Mayor Guilani and Gov. Romney McCain stressed his national security experience and trashed mayors and governors as being unqualified in dealing with national security, "I am prepared. I am prepared. I need no on-the-job training. I wasn't a mayor for a short period of time. I wasn't a governor for a short period of time."

As we all know his running mate, Sarah Palin, is one of those mayors and governors with no national security experience. I guess he changed his tune. Opportunist? Liar? Flip flopper?

Source: Huffington Post