President Obama will sign a memorandum today to extend benefits to same-sex partners of federal employees. This according to The New York Times, which is also reporting that Obama will stop short of pledging full health insurance coverage. The reason? Broad coverage "could require legislation." Under mounting pressure from gay rights leaders and the community at large, this is a small gesture of goodwill, but according to Richard Socarides, a former Clinton administration adviser, "more important now is what he says tomorrow about the future for gay people during his presidency." Several states have legalized same-sex marriage in recent months, but the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" debate seems bogged down by the reluctance of both the U.S. Military and the president to take action. And a Department of Justice legal brief defending Clinton's shameful Defense of Marriage Act was a slap in the face to voters who elected Obama under the assumption that he would keep his promise to repeal both DOMA and Don't Ask, Don't Tell. It's clear to me that Obama is playing a careful game of politics, and we certainly shouldn't begrudge his attempt to maintain his mainstream popularity, but the gay community deserves more than crumbs. Justice delayed is justice denied.

Yesterday, New Hampshire became the sixth state in the union to allow same-sex marriage. The new legislation, passed by the state House and Senate and signed by the governor, will take effect on January 1st, 2010. In celebration of each new victory and as a reminder of how far we still have to go, Big Queer has decided to start tallying the states that legalize gay marriage with our Big Queer Map.

States that allow gay marriage: Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Maine, Vermont and New Hampshire.

Yesterday, Barack Obama issued a proclamation acknowledging Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Pride Month, something the previous president once refused to do. In Obama's statement, he once again committed to "achieving equal justice under law for LGBT Americans," acknowledged that the gay community "mobilized the Nation to respond to the domestic HIV/AIDS epidemic," acknowledged himself for being "the first President to appoint openly LGBT candidates to Senate-confirmed positions in the first 100 days of an Administration" and for supporting the decriminalization of homosexuality around the world, and repeated his promises to expand hate crime legislation, ensuring adoption rights, ending the U.S. Military's inane "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, and supporting civil unions (but not equal marriage). To date, the Obama administration has failed to follow through with any of those commitments, nor has the president succeeded at undoing George W. Bush's 11th hour ban on all international visitors to the United States who are HIV positive, but we can hope that his proclamation is one small step toward fulfilling his campaign promises to our community. We can all help make this happen by speaking out, writing letters, and otherwise being vocal about what we expect from our government and its leaders.

Read President Obama's entire proclamation here.